Hitting on a hot chic is always a great thing, but hitting on your best friend's ex....GET OUT OF HERE. A bro never dates his best friend's ex. Dating your best friend's ex is like taking the easy road to meeting a woman. Your best friend met this girl, started dating her, introduced her to you, and when things ended wrong....YOU....you decided to jump in and hook up with his ex. You were probably thinking that she already knows you and she probably digs you so you're just going to jump in. What you need to know is that when that friend introduced that girl to you, he trusted you. Don't fall for that girl, she is evil. Keep your head straight and think about all the great things your bro has done for you. Then think about the risks that are going to rise from dating this woman. You aren't going to find any happiness with her. Plus there is plenty of fish in the sea. It is just that some guys have disfunctioning fishing rods, so they decide to feed on their best friend's catch.
Sometimes, the girl you are looking at was previously dating a friend of yours. Just a normal friend. Well, what do you do then? The Bro Code has a scale that sets everything straight.
Your good friend and she dated for
0 - 6 months + he dumped her = you don't wait, go ahead and date her
0 - 6 months + she dumped him = wait for at least 6 months
6 - 12 months + he dumped her = wait for at least 6 months
6 - 12 months + she dumped him = wait for a year and ask for permission
+ 1 year + he dumped her = wait for a year
+ 1 year + she dumped him = wait for a year and ask for permission
So you have waited for the time you were required and now you need to ask for permission. The best time to ask for permission is when your friend is engaged in another relationship. If he has another girl on his hands, he isn't going to care much about. If he doesn't have another girl, well then there is a lot of stuff that you're going to face. He is probably going to say that it is okay and that he has moved on from her. He is lying. I don't think a guy ever moves on from a girl. He will always have feelings for her. Anyways, don't expect that friend of yours to talk to you for the next few weeks. It's just the way things go....you have to choose between the girl and the bro. I recommend the bros, unless the girl is about a 8 or higher on the 10 point scale. ;)
-Bro CODE
I completely agree with this issue. Respect is a major issue in this case. You have to respect your friend and his feelings before ruining a great frindship over a girl. Like the motto says friends are forever, relationships are just temporary.
ReplyDeleteWhat what if you really like her? What if maybe she's the one?
ReplyDeleteMy best friend is almost "dating" my ex girlfriend and he says he can't help the feelings he has for her like that's bullsh*t. No bro should do that to another bro.
ReplyDeleteWhat if you were friends with her first and she introduced you to him?
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ReplyDeleteOk, help, my Bro was dating with my girl friend, I introduced her, but she never were his girlfriend just go out and things, nothing seriously, now I wanna date her but i'm wondering if is this ok
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