You're allowed to cry if:
1) a family member or friend has passed away
2) you have lost a long time pet, continue reading below
Pets you are allowed to cry for: Dogs, Horses, Pigs, and Monkey
Pets you are not allowed to cry for: Fish, Hamsters, Birds and everything else
3) you just won a lot of money
If you find yourself in a situation were you are about to cry, and you are not suppose to be crying.... well then the Bro Code has methods that you can use to get yourself out
Method #1) You're watching a movie with your bros and you're about to cry, the easiest way to get away is to tell the group that you need to talk a dump. Go to the bathroom and wipe your eyes. Get your game back on and join the group for the rest of the movie.
Method #2) Keep your eyes wide open and don't blink
Okay, so you weren't able to hold yourself back and now you're crying in front of your friends. The best way to cry is to just let it all out. Don't try to hold your tears back. Just let it all out at once. Also don't try to be one of those people who try to talk and cry at the same time, because it makes you look really stupid.
How about when it isn't you who is crying. Sometimes it is the girl who is crying. Sadly, many guys do not know what to do when a girl is crying. If you really, really, really care about this girl, then try to cheer her up and tell her that everything will be fine. If the girl is a an okay friend, then just give them a huge hug and watch TV over their shoulders. ;)
- Bro CODE
While stereotypes depict men as the strong and stable ones in a relationship, I think it is okay to cry once in a while, or at least be a little sensitive. I personally hate when guys keep their feelings bottled up inside and then take out their anger on your, or even worse never talk about their problems. I think when a guy is more open about what he is feeling it makes a relationship so much easier. I'm not saying he must cry, but if that's what has to happen then so be it.
ReplyDeleteI know i have cried in front of people before. I completely agree with Kaylyn, sometimes i feel like guys and girls both bottle their feelings up until one day they just explode and destroy themselves, if everyone just came out with their feelings and talked about what was wrong our lives would be exponentially easier. Personally i think the strength and stability in a relationship should be 60% 40% toward the guy, but who knows what the perfect combination is. And some guys need to cry, if they don't cry they can get really prissy, and aggravated and then who knows what they'll do. Great post Rahul.
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